I’m Alex Kaplan, a wedding photographer and videographer based in New Milford, NJ, serving Northern NJ, NYC, and the Hudson Valley. For over 30 years, I’ve helped couples enjoy their day without feeling rushed, while I quietly capture the real moments, natural portraits, and genuine emotions you’ll still love decades from now.
A Franklin Township backyard wedding looks simple on paper. Then you walk onto the property and see how much of the day is already there: the porch, the white fence, the red barn, the open lawn.
Morgan and Dakota were married at a childhood home on September 12, 2026, and I photographed the day. After more than 30 years behind a camera, I can tell you that a private property wedding in New Jersey offers something no venue can. Nobody has to be introduced to the place.
The photographs from this part of the morning start with the house itself. A dress hangs by a window, the rings sit ready, and people in matching robes move between the yard and the porch.
Getting ready at home never feels staged. It happens wherever the light is good and wherever someone needs a hug, which is why I love candid backyard wedding photography.
I photograph the rings and small details early, before the house fills up. Once the family arrives, I move to people, and the quiet objects have already been recorded.
If you want to see another wedding built around a family home, my Fair Lawn home wedding feature follows a ceremony and reception held in one backyard.

A house tells a couple’s story before the couple does. A dress in the window of a childhood home says more than any styled detail shot could.

Morgan and Dakota had their first look on the lawn beside the red barn. In a setting this open, I usually work from a distance and let the two of them have the moment.
That habit is deliberate. A first look gets better when the couple forgets the camera, and a longer lens makes that easier. It is one reason relaxed portraits come together quickly afterward.

Just before we lined up the wedding party portraits, two of the guys fired up the choppers to roll them into position on the lawn. The rumble shook the ground right by the barn.
It cut through the last of the pre-ceremony tension. Everyone’s stiff portrait smiles turned into real, unscripted laughs.
Motorcycles were part of the day, so they became part of the portraits, from the wedding party lined up beside them to the couple with the bikes behind them. That is the documentary approach behind my New Jersey wedding photography: I follow what is already true about you instead of inventing poses.



Family is the heart of a childhood home wedding, so these frames matter most. A young guest, dressed up for the day, rides a small blue dirt bike across the grass, and a golden retriever appears in the family photographs.
That is what makes a childhood home wedding in NJ so personal. The people in the photographs are standing on ground they know, and it shows in how they hold themselves.
I avoid long, stiff lineups. I work in small, meaningful groupings, like siblings together or the kids wherever the energy is, so the session takes minutes and the pictures look like your actual family. I wrote more about this in my guide to photographing kids at weddings.
Between the candid moments, I make a few simple posed portraits, like this one in front of the barn.
You can browse more of this style in my wedding portfolio.



The ceremony took place on the lawn in front of the red barn, with a soft floral arch and wooden benches for guests. A Franklin Township backyard wedding ceremony feels different from a venue ceremony, because everyone is gathered on the family’s own grass.
For an outdoor wedding ceremony in NJ, the light decides a lot, and a lawn like this gives you open sky and room to move.
Guests walked across the grass to find their places, and I photograph that arrival too. The processional, the benches filling up, and the faces turning toward the arch are all part of the story.

I stay low and quiet during a ceremony, because the best frames happen between the official moments: a glance at a guest, a hand on a shoulder, a pen over a document. The couple’s kiss beneath the arch closes the sequence.


After the ceremony, the celebration moved under a white tent on the same lawn. A tented wedding reception in NJ stays close to the grass and the evening air, which makes for relaxed, open photographs.
The set from this part of the night shows toasts at the head table, a full dance floor, a dessert spread, and fireworks to close the evening. I stay out of the way at receptions, because good reception photography should look the way the party felt.
At Morgan and Dakota’s Franklin Township backyard wedding, the dance floor was full of guests of different ages. Those are the frames couples tell me they come back to most.


For couples planning a backyard wedding in Franklin Township, NJ, having everything happen on one property gives a photographer one place to work with all day. That focus is a gift, and a few habits from 30 years of private property weddings help you use it.
Walk the grounds with your photographer at the hour the ceremony will happen, so we know where the light falls. Build in twenty quiet minutes for just the two of you. Keep family roles simple, so the people you love can be guests and not staff.
This is for couples planning an intimate or large private property wedding anywhere in New Jersey, whether it is a family yard, a farm, or a home that holds your whole childhood. If you want photographs that feel like your real day, reach out about photography coverage and tell me about your place.
About Me — But Really, It’s About You
The most meaningful wedding photos never come from stiff poses.
They come from the quiet laugh you didn’t think anyone saw.
The look on your partner’s face during the vows.
The warmth of your people all around you.
I’ve been doing this for over 30 years — and I still get nervous before every wedding.
Not because I’m uncertain, but because I know how much it matters.
After photographing hundreds of weddings over the past few decades, I’ve learned something simple:
The best photos happen when you feel fully present.
That’s why I work calmly, behind the scenes — guiding when it helps, then stepping back when the real moments unfold. I’m always anticipating what’s next, so you never have to think about a thing.
My goal is simple: to help you relax, feel confident, and walk away with photos that feel like you — not a filtered version of someone else’s idea of perfect.
Most of my couples say the same thing:
“We’re so glad we didn’t have to worry.”
trusted by over 800 couples In NYC & NJ you’re in great hands.
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