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Based in New Milford, NJ (Bergen County) and serving couples across New Jersey, New York City, and the Hudson Valley, Alex Kaplan is known for creating a calm, guided, and joy-filled photography experience. Browse our latest posts for real wedding inspiration, expert tips, and behind-the-scenes moments that make your day unforgettable.

From camera-shy to confident — real emotion, genuine connection, and moments that matter. Stories, tips, and inspiration from NJ & NYC weddings

Couple walking together through Van Vleck House & Gardens before a Montclair NJ proposal

How to Plan a Surprise Proposal From Out of Town: Rishi and Charvi’s Van Vleck Gardens Proposal

When Rishi reached out, he was planning his proposal from Boston, and he was facing the question I hear most: how to plan a surprise proposal in a place you have never actually stood in. He had chosen Van Vleck House & Gardens in Montclair, New Jersey, without visiting first, and he wanted it private, […]

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Bride and groom twirling at golden hour with the Manhattan skyline behind them

NJ Wedding Photography vs NYC Wedding Photography: 7 Major Differences

After photographing weddings for more than 30 years, I get one version of the same question almost every week. Couples planning across the river want to know how NJ wedding photography vs NYC wedding photography actually plays out on the wedding day, not in a brochure. The honest answer is that both can be stunning. […]

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Man kneeling to propose on a garden path at Van Vleck Gardens in Montclair NJ

15 Expert Proposal Photography Tips to Capture More Natural and Memorable Proposal Photos

After 30+ years photographing weddings, engagements, and proposals across New Jersey and New York, I have learned that the best images usually come from small, calm choices made before the moment happens. The couples who relax almost always walk away with the photos they treasure most. These proposal photography tips are not about expensive gear […]

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Newlywed couple sharing a quiet, intimate portrait moment at a New Jersey wedding reception

7 Wedding Photo Regrets Couples Often Wish They Could Undo

After three decades photographing weddings across Northern New Jersey and New York City, I can tell you that most wedding photo regrets have almost nothing to do with the camera. They surface quietly, often a year or two later, when a couple opens their album and realizes a moment they assumed was captured simply never […]

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Bride and groom sharing a candid moment during their NYC wedding

Why Some Couples Skip Traditional Wedding Portraits and Never Regret It

Most wedding days are built around the camera. The timeline bends to fit the photographs, and couples routinely vanish for forty-five minutes to an hour while their guests wait on them. Miranda and David wanted to skip traditional wedding portraits entirely. They came looking for a documentary wedding photographer NYC couples trust with a relaxed, […]

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Father wiping away tears while embracing his daughter during an emotional getting-ready moment in New Jersey

Documentary Wedding Photography vs Traditional Photography: Which Style Fits You?

Choosing how your wedding gets photographed quietly shapes how you will remember the entire day for the rest of your life. After more than thirty years behind the camera, I have learned that the style you choose affects your photos more than the gear, the lighting, or almost any other decision you make. Many couples […]

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Bride and groom sharing a candid moment during full wedding photography coverage in NJ

How Many Hours of Wedding Photography Coverage Do You Really Need?

One of the first questions couples ask me, often before we have settled on a date or a venue, is how many hours of wedding photography they should book. It makes sense. You are planning a day you have never planned before, and the hours listed on a photography package can feel like a riddle […]

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Newlywed couple smiling and holding hands during their recessional at a Catholic church wedding ceremony

How to Look Natural in Wedding Photos Even If You Hate Being Photographed

If the thought of being photographed all day makes you tense up, you are not alone. After more than thirty years behind the camera, I can tell you that some of the most camera-shy people I have met ended up with photos they genuinely love. Learning how to look natural in wedding photos has very […]

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Wedding photographer and videographer portrait of a bride and groom outside a New Jersey church before the ceremony

Do You Really Need Wedding Videography? Here’s What Couples Often Regret

Almost every couple eventually asks the same quiet question: do you need wedding videography, or will photographs be enough? It usually surfaces late in the planning, after the venue and the dress, when the budget feels tight and film looks like the easy thing to cut. I understand the instinct. After more than thirty years […]

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Alex made everything feel effortless — and the photos are incredible.”

Free parts of our entire wedding. 

“One of the most stress"

— Kevin & Sarah
Alex Kaplan Weddings

Alex captured a version of me that actually felt confident and real.”

I look in photos

“I’ve always hated how" 

— Tina R.
Alex Kaplan Weddings

it’s all there. Looking through our gallery feels like reliving the day.”

moment. Every laugh, every tear

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— Alyssa & Brandon
Alex Kaplan Weddings

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